Style is largely similar for both male and female emo kids. will be black (Like my step-dad), sometimes featuring band patches or a small amount of white trim. I try to explain this to my parents that emo and scene are completely different but .. Would be nice if we could all just be, although I am certainly partial to Goth girls This makes me want to write a fanfiction about gay emo step brothers in love but . Motionless In WhiteBand QuotesBlack Veil BridesMusic BandsRock. Emo is not a clothing style, cutting your wrists, or being a frequent buyer at Hot Topic. Emo boys often weird girls pants and dye their hair black, with a pyrimid spiked belt, and tight tee shirts(usualy black). . NOT all emo kids are gay. NOT all.